Leaders frequently face an internal tug of war between ‘Me the Person’ and ‘The Expected Role of Leader’. Authentic leadership is the art of weaving these two sometimes-conflicting manifestations into ‘Me the Leader’. Most leaders want to leave a legacy that reflects the authenticity they brought to their role. But that means that their intentions as authentic leaders must match their behaviours and results.
The very deep question of ‘Who am I?’ is not an easy one for many to answer. Really understanding ourselves, intensely working through our value system and continually reframing what is important to us, is key. Truly appreciating and reconnecting with our internal beliefs and values to form our purpose barometer is essential – in life generally – but especially in leading others.
As leaders, we are faced with a myriad of decisions that to a lesser or greater extent draw directly on this value system. Difficult choices are, by definition difficult because they invariably butt right up against (or are even in outright conflict with) one or more of our core values. Leaders wrestle with this dilemma internally as they work through what to tolerate, what to trade off or what to sacrifice of themselves to fulfil their role as leaders whilst still honouring and respecting themselves.
Authentic leadership requires the person to be genuine – to bring their whole self to work. If we were to brutally ask ourselves how integrated the compartments of our lives are – how consistent are we across those various compartments – work, partner, parent, social, community, private? Do we function honestly, openly and consistently across each and all of these different zones of our lives? From the outside looking in would we look and behave the same in each? How much do we consistently honour our core values?
Going Against Your values As An Authentic Leader
Have you had a leader who communicates something to you and you do not genuinely feel that they believe in what they are communicating? They may have even openly stated that they do not believe in it. Does this make them an unauthentic leader?
If the leader is not engaged, does not understand or does not agree with the ‘why’, they cannot genuinely engage their people to do the same. Even authentic leaders must sometimes make decisions that go against their internal value system, despite their best efforts to remain true to themselves in their role. Leaders cannot be expected to believe in every decision, however, if a leader finds this to be the case frequently or even occasionally on particularly important issues, then it is perhaps not their authentic leadership that is in question but whether they are the right leaders for that organization.
As an authentic leader, you must define your values and decide which ones simply cannot be compromised. You may be surprised to find that you are willing to compromise them in certain situations, but be honest and transparent to your team about why you make those decisions. Your team will no doubt understand that nothing is black and white, so concessions will be made but the genuine intent behind those decisions should not disappear.
Do You Judge Leaders By Their Intentions Or Behaviours?
There is a useful perspective to gain by examining the judgements we make about ourselves and of others as leaders. Our expectations of leaders can often be quite different from the expectations of ourselves. How easy is it to judge ourselves on our intentions (‘what we are trying to do’) but then judge others simply on their actual behaviours (‘what they do’)? Authenticity challenges this disconnect, examines these manifestations as a whole and aims to get real unity between them.
As leaders, we bring our ‘personal me’ into our leadership roles all of the time. Our actions, what we do, how we say it and especially our decisions are revealed through all of our interactions. But it is often in those knife-edge situations – those ‘finally-balanced’ deep and intensive, potentially high-impact situations that our actual test of authenticity is brought to the fore.
“A true leader has the confidence to stand alone, the courage to make tough decisions, and the compassion to listen to the needs of others. He does not set out to be a leader, but becomes one by the equality of his actions and the integrity of his intent.” – Douglas MacArthur
A Leader’s Legacy
Most leaders want to be remembered for their contributions to their team, organization and society as a whole. This will be different for every person – while some want to be remembered for their business results, others would prefer to leave a legacy of caring, compassionate leadership and mentoring.
“If someone asks me this in 20 years I would like people to say that I was true to myself in the leadership decisions I made and that through every mistake I made I learned and I learned fast. I have used the benefit of hindsight and analysis to understand the implications of my leadership – both positive and negative. I have truly understood those who work with me and I have represented them well. I am trusted as well as being true to myself and my values system – the start and continuation of which is self-awareness.” – Steve Robinson
Every authentic leader has good intentions. The key to leaving a legacy as an authentic leader is turning those intentions into results, while keeping true to your core values, and exhibiting the behaviours of an authentic leader every day.
